The Unstuck Lawyer®
when one of those days is every day
Life coaching for lawyers to create clarity, confidence, and choice, and the life you want to live
Life coaching for lawyers to help you
- Become clear on what you truly want, and how you want to live
- Set new boundaries, be more assertive, and take control of your time for you
- Quieten the inner critic, and deal with worries in new ways
- Break old habits and cycles, and respond differently to people and situations
- Build self-belief and self-trust, and understand where not feeling good enough comes from
- Communicate with greater confidence at home and at work, including saying no
- Stop, rest, and do nothing, with less guilt
- Prioritise your fun, plans, and life
What life coaching for lawyers can help you achieve
A life-work balance that suits you
Confidence to be assertive and clear
Healthier habits for body and mind
Purpose in your career and your life
Stronger relationships, in love and friendship
Time for you and your wellbeing
WHAT CLIENTS SAY
“Simona is a great personal development and neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) coach, very attentive to detail, and provides lots of insight to one’s personal circumstances and challenges. What I find particularly helpful is that she teaches practical NLP tools, approach, and techniques that can be used to manage time, people, situations, stress.
Those tools are helping me to shift my mindset and create better outcomes in my professional and personal life. I highly recommend Simona for anyone seeking personal growth and a better work-life balance.”
Vincentas Zabulis, Law Firm Founder, Zabulis Legal
“In 90 minutes Simona made me realise that something that I had struggled with for years, and had begun to really worry about, was something I could control, that it was behavioural, not part of my DNA. It was such a relief, and I feel as if I have begun to really turn things around because of that realisation.
It will take time, but I really feel positive about the future now. I CAN do it. If only I had had that consultation years ago!”
Law Firm Founder
“I never get the chance to take time out to focus on me and what I need for me. Time with Simona allowed me to do this. I was able to look at particular issues, I struggle with, and talk them through with someone who has experienced them too.
I have learnt some useful techniques on how to deal with imposter syndrome, difficult conversations, and feel much better for it!”
Law Firm Founder
Ready to live your life, for you?
A relaxed, no-pressure, no-obligation conversation.
Not quite ready? You can also sign up to my Newsletter for ideas on better ways of working, developing your skills and habits, and finding a life-work balance that suits you.
The life you are living. The life you want.
Coaching for a different way of life and lifestyle
Have you realised the life you are living and the life you want are too far apart?
Or maybe you keep finding yourself in a similar pattern or reactivity that you want to change. Perhaps you want to break certain habits, including how you respond to certain people or situations.
Perhaps you have a whole new life goal, a different path, or have decided how differently you want to live your life more fully day to day.
If so, you are not alone. Whilst coaching varies for everyone, it gives you the time and space to become clear on what you want, and to make the changes that matter to you.
What do you want more of in your life?
Coaching for you
Do you want to
- Have more time for what you want
- Grow, enhance, or reach a goal
- Shift unhelpful thoughts and behaviours
- Have better relationships
- Stop playing it small or holding back
- Feel better looking after you
- Know your purpose or what you want
- Feel connected
- Live, laugh, and love more
Clarity for change
Are you looking to shift
- Unhelpful thinking and responses
- Limits and stories
- The different ways we self-sabotage
- Blindspots and skill gaps
- Unhelpful habits and thought patterns
- Emotional challenges
- Exhaustion and burnout
- Lack of clarity of thinking
- Guilt, self-doubt, lack of self-belief
- Negative, critical, repetitive thinking
Time to enjoy
Are you ready for
- Greater confidence and self-esteem
- Knowing what you want and how to get there
- Belief in yourself
- Enjoying asserting yourself
- Higher self-worth and loving relationships
- Having fun and adventures
- Feeling confident internally and with others
- Enjoying time focused on the important things
Looking for coaching focused on your legal career?
Leading a firm, stepping into partnership, and progressing as a lawyer each have individual support.
Law Firm Expertise – Previous Salaried Partner, Solicitor 20 yrs, Coach 10 + years
I have been a professional coach for over 10 years, and before that practised law for approximately 20 years as an employment solicitor and salaried partner. I know how easily we can stay on a path without thinking about what we want, even if it feels wrong or dreary. Likewise, past experiences and upbringing can shape how we behave and think, even when we want to be different. They can also shape how much we are living our lives with ease, fun, and positivity. I draw on personal knowledge, experience, and on the experience of the many others I have coached, to help you create a life and lifestyle that work for you.
Alongside my legal career, my training includes ILM Level 7 and ILM Level 5 in Coaching and Mentoring for Senior Executives, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Practitioner, Solution Focused Therapist, Positive Psychology, EMDR Plus Practitioner, EFT Practitioner Levels 1 and 2, and an Advanced Diploma in Clinical Hypnotherapy.
Life coaching with Simona
I work with you to help you make the change, find a new clarity, insight, or to obtain the outcome you desire. Quicker and easier.
Whether that is an internal or external change, a mental, physical, or life goal, we work together. Developing new practical, emotional, and mindset skills.
We explore what is wanted, why, and what has stopped you getting there already.
We look at what might get in the way in the future, and how to overcome those obstacles. We also look at how we may self-sabotage goals at the outset, along the way, and even when we get there. Shifting unhelpful stories, past hurts, beliefs, and internal limits to make a difference.
Experiencing a new willingness and excitement in becoming more of you, as you show up in all areas of your life, create and attract what you want, and enjoy the changes you want in your life.
Life is short, my maxim is: One Life. Your Life. Live It.
Are you ready?
How we work together – online coaching programmes
Life coaching packages typically run over 3–4 months, although each one is bespoke.
Becoming Unstuck Programme
Tackling the immediate challenge and creating a significant shift
3–4 months
Beyond Unstuck Programme
For those who want to keep growing, and to live the life they want
12 months
Frequently asked questions
It is one-to-one coaching that looks at your life as a whole, including your thoughts, behaviours, relationship with yourself, and others, and what you want, instead of how it is now. Together we become clear on how you want to be, behave, and live. We explore what has been getting in the way, and then make practical changes, whether that is more time for you, stronger boundaries, better relationships, or a new direction. Sessions are online, so I work with people across the UK and internationally.
No. Many people start with a sense that something needs to change, without knowing what. Becoming clear on what you want, and why, is often the first part of our work together.
My other pages focus on your role at work, such as leading a firm, stepping into partnership, or progressing in your career. Life coaching looks at the bigger picture, including your time, relationships, wellbeing, and what you want from life outside the office. There is often overlap, and we focus on whatever matters most to you.
Yes. Everything we discuss is treated in the strictest confidence contractually, which is why so many people value having an independent space to focus on what matters to them. You can find the full details on the pricing page.
The simplest way is a free discovery call. It is a relaxed, no-pressure conversation about what you want to change and whether coaching with me is the right fit. If it is not, I will say so.
Ready to create the life and lifestyle you want?
A relaxed, no-pressure, no-obligation conversation.
Not quite ready? You can also sign up to my Newsletter for ideas on better ways of working, developing your skills and habits, and finding a life-work balance that suits you.
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